Perhaps, the obedient and the conformists are the same descriptions to describe people are coward can be used interchangeably. When compliant people they blindly follow they also blindly judge especially towards those who exercise self judgment, self responsibilities, sometimes in a way you even can not understand.
They can accuse somebody for being selfish for whatever reasons- I never thought the word selfish can be a word used to insult or hurt people. Aren’t we all guided by self-interests? and why that is a problem itself? When people use mean or hurtful words to accuse someone, it only shows their real ugly souls. If they are really justified people how can they tolerate and don’t see these uncivilised behaviours, and doing nothing at all, but on the other hand eagerly to accuse the ones who stand for their core values. Do you think that is justified?
When you can understand or explain a social norm, it means it still makes sense somewhat, when you can’t understand or it is inconceivable , it means it is an absurdity.
Meandering leads to perfection 