As soon as you are born you are going to suffer in this world (the human realm), the moment you come to the earth you are in a journey to death. The only right attitude to live a life is to feel content, ,regardless where you were born, who you are with now, rich or poor. You can’t be happy if your goal is to fit in, seek approvals from others or to need others to like you. Instead your characters will carry you through the best and worst days, neither your success nor your failure will define you, but it is that how you handle them defines you. If you allow your character to determine your outlook, you will be content in all stages of your life.