What if the guy you’re seeing, feels this way, one word Run…even if you like him.
If the relationship doesn’t work out, it’s not your fault, if you really care the relationship, you should be you, shouldn’t do things like changing yourself for this guy, in order to make him feel secure… If you’re a genuine person, you should be yourself, if he feels you intimidating, then he’s not suitable for you, because being yourself and loving yourself is never wrong.
If his insecurity because of these confident and strong good qualities of you, then the person needs to change is him not you, unless you hate these qualities and decide to change for yourself…if he cares about you, he should overcome himself, not you the one to make the efforts.
You can be patient but never change yourself for him, only change for yourself. In the sustainable healthy relationship no one needs to change for anyone especially because of insecurity..doesn’t make sense and it’s a wrong direction.
You can also mirror yourself, if a guy you like you feel you’re not enough, do you want the guy you like to change or you more want to improve yourself instead?
Meandering leads to perfection 