It might sound counterintuitive, it is what you have to do. Naturally you want to stay to make it work,but that is just you are being emotional, you are still bewildering, so it’s like you are at some cross road, you just forcing yourself to choose one, because you are emotional and believing yourself that choosing yes or no is the only option.
Wrong…there is another option is to not to choose, means to renounce yourself from it. Being ruthless. Think, if you don’t know how to do, there must be reasons, you don’t have to list all your reasons and to make a final decision, it doesn’t work that way, you are complicating things. And the result won’t be sustainable,you’ll be confused at some point again later soon. What the correct way to do is to not make a decision, don’t cut off, don’t surrender. You should listen to yourself, yourself is unsure then you’re unsure, so don’t do anything.
Instead if you’re being soft, kind and nice, it only leads to further confusions. Until it becomes a permanent vicious cycle. Being ruthless now, you can make your life much simpler instantly. I mean at least you’ll give your full attention to what matters the most in your life.
Meandering leads to perfection 