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The art of letting go (in a relationship)

It may sound weird to say by letting go and you will find the delight, some people might judge by saying this is an excuse to justify yourself because you have a weak character -lack of perseverance, or you’re being passive,even playing the victim. Here let me explain why these assumptions are not always correct.Continue reading “The art of letting go (in a relationship)”

How to have compassions

How to generate your compassions when needed. Perhaps the moment we really need is when we’re experiencing aversions toward some behaviours, person or even culture, we can have any negative emotions toward anything,even toward the moon. Not saying having these emotions is wrong, after all, no one can control who or what you like orContinue reading “How to have compassions”

All Seneca Powerful Quotes| I’ve collected| Some of my favourites

This is a page for just Seneca, bottom there will be one video of his quotes, most of the quotes I like but not included in this list, that video I’ve watched, think worth to share, and I don’t have to type myself. A gift consists not in what is done or given, but inContinue reading “All Seneca Powerful Quotes| I’ve collected| Some of my favourites”

Self-interested and being selfish

When people accuse you for being selfish the behaviour itself it is selfish. Because if you don’t think of yourself, or calculate everything first, you wouldn’t accuse anyone for being selfish, either should you care about, except if you’re on your duty for the work. But the truth is, as simply as – thier interestsContinue reading “Self-interested and being selfish”

Best Stoicism Quotes and Notes 2021

Stoicism:endurance of pain or hardship without display of feelings and without complaint Seneca quotes: https://looi.art.blog/2022/03/01/all-seneca-powerful-quotes-ive-collected-some-of-my-favourites/ It is more fitting for a man to laugh at life than to lament over it Seneca Strong emotions arise only when we fail in our desires and aversions Epictetus We need to discipline our actions in accordance to ourContinue reading “Best Stoicism Quotes and Notes 2021”

002 Practice Stoicism – impulses to act or not to act

” All of us have a lot more self-control, endurance and patience than we think we do.” 1, Be proactive, take your own responsibilities. Negative emotions are not helpful in resolving the problems. Remember it is not enough to be hit or insulted to be harmed, you must believe that you’re being harmed. Be objectiveContinue reading “002 Practice Stoicism – impulses to act or not to act”

001 Practice Stoicism – wake up early|forming new habits

Reference: 1, wake up early 5am, do the thing excites you the most, in this quiet hour, discipline & consistency, 30 days need to form 2, prepare before bed to get up early for the next day 3, appreciate life, 3-4 things everyday 4, practice voluntary hardships to make life uncomfortable 5, find an accountabilityContinue reading “001 Practice Stoicism – wake up early|forming new habits”

The Best Pessimistic | Sad Quotes Compilation|Solitude

All the Other Quotes Solitude The surest cue for vanity is loneliness Thomas Wolfe You can never have too many friends. The profound unmitigated loneliness it’s the only truth of life R.K. Narayan Love People do not hurt us, our hopes from them hurt us Iman Ali People in love often become edgy, dangerous; theyContinue reading “The Best Pessimistic | Sad Quotes Compilation|Solitude”

The practice of groundness 2021, Brad Stulberg

Buddhist parable If you’re experiencing a negative thought, feeling, or event, it’s as if you’ve already been pierced by one arrow. But if you react to it with another negative thought or feeling, you’re shooting yourself with a second arrow, making the injury even worse. Acknowledge the reality of a problem in a calm nonreactive,Continue reading “The practice of groundness 2021, Brad Stulberg”

Don’t confuse your means with ends

Long time ago I’ve noticed something unpleasant ,I start to ask myself why is that some people make you feel they are just some kind of imposters, although on the surface they treat you well, they say beautiful words that you’d like to hear,as if they do all kind of things just because they thinkContinue reading “Don’t confuse your means with ends”