Quick solution, ignore, it doesn’t mean you allow this to happen again, to ignore means to spend your engergy and time on better places, like enjoy your life..do things matter to you rather waste your most precious thing in your life-time, to make a scene, or dramas. Not worth it girls. I mean you gottaContinue reading “If the guy you like hurts you ..”
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The problems they don’t exist
The problems in our lives, there are merely perceptions, everything they are the way they are and altogether they exist in a harmony, they themselves have no problems, but only when we think they are, by realising this concept, shouldn’t we queit our minds first and only do what within our control ? When weContinue reading “The problems they don’t exist”
Make a relationship work by being ruthless
It might sound counterintuitive, it is what you have to do. Naturally you want to stay to make it work,but that is just you are being emotional, you are still bewildering, so it’s like you are at some cross road, you just forcing yourself to choose one, because you are emotional and believing yourself thatContinue reading “Make a relationship work by being ruthless”
What if the guy thinks he’s not enough for you
What if the guy you’re seeing, feels this way, one word Run…even if you like him. If the relationship doesn’t work out, it’s not your fault, if you really care the relationship, you should be you, shouldn’t do things like changing yourself for this guy, in order to make him feel secure… If you’re aContinue reading “What if the guy thinks he’s not enough for you”
What hurts you blesses you
What hurts you blesses you From Rumi Pains are our best friends, From those pains, I know what my boundaries are, they teach me how to treat people, how to love, who I am, what I value, what life is it..pains here to guide us
19th May 2022 Content
As soon as you are born you are going to suffer in this world (the human realm), the moment you come to the earth you are in a journey to death. The only right attitude to live a life is to feel content, ,regardless where you were born, who you are with now, rich orContinue reading “19th May 2022 Content”
18th May Guard your heart and discipline of Actions
There is a quote says Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flow from it. I think it’s not to tell you outside is dangerous or no humanity there but rather a sensible way to tell us to avoid any unnecessary problems, such as betrayal, heart broken experiences. If you can avoidContinue reading “18th May Guard your heart and discipline of Actions”
The compliant people
Perhaps, the obedient and the conformists are the same descriptions to describe people are coward can be used interchangeably. When compliant people they blindly follow they also blindly judge especially towards those who exercise self judgment, self responsibilities, sometimes in a way you even can not understand. They can accuse somebody for being selfish forContinue reading “The compliant people”
The art of letting go (in a relationship)
It may sound weird to say by letting go and you will find the delight, some people might judge by saying this is an excuse to justify yourself because you have a weak character -lack of perseverance, or you’re being passive,even playing the victim. Here let me explain why these assumptions are not always correct.Continue reading “The art of letting go (in a relationship)”
How to have compassions
How to generate your compassions when needed. Perhaps the moment we really need is when we’re experiencing aversions toward some behaviours, person or even culture, we can have any negative emotions toward anything,even toward the moon. Not saying having these emotions is wrong, after all, no one can control who or what you like orContinue reading “How to have compassions”