When people accuse you for being selfish the behaviour itself it is selfish. Because if you don’t think of yourself, or calculate everything first, you wouldn’t accuse anyone for being selfish, either should you care about, except if you’re on your duty for the work. But the truth is, as simply as – thier interestsContinue reading “Self-interested and being selfish”
Tag Archives: Psychology
Don’t confuse your means with ends
Long time ago I’ve noticed something unpleasant ,I start to ask myself why is that some people make you feel they are just some kind of imposters, although on the surface they treat you well, they say beautiful words that you’d like to hear,as if they do all kind of things just because they thinkContinue reading “Don’t confuse your means with ends”
How to Deal with Changes
“The only constant is change” Four types of changes together form the matrix of four possibilities-big or small,self-initiated, or externally imposed Whenevr you’re dealing with changes there are two fundamental questions that you can ask-does it have a big or small impact in your life? Second, did you initiate the change yourself or has itContinue reading “How to Deal with Changes”
Quiet Our Minds and Find Inner Peace
It’s not wrong to be ambitious. But the constant drive for achievement is a distraction from what is good in the present moment. It’s like driving from A to B as fast as possible, without pausing to look out of the window. Our problem is that we seek peace in the wrong places. We fleeContinue reading “Quiet Our Minds and Find Inner Peace”
A guidance for a peaceful life
Listen with the ear of heart It’s all too easy to block out the voices that seem strange. When we meet new people or people are different from us we need to cultivate the skill by listening with the ear of heart. It takes an awareness of our own tendencies. You’re constantly listening to yourContinue reading “A guidance for a peaceful life”
Are friendships obsolete now?
Friendship is unlike a romantic relationship it doesn’t evoke strong emotions, less possessiveness and jealousy and non- committal. People seems agree having friends is always better than having none. But do we really need friends? The emergence of modern means of communication and how today’s the society structured seem to render the traditional ways ofContinue reading “Are friendships obsolete now?”
Enneagram
Enneagram: it’s a model of a human psyche – a typology of nine interconnected personality types. Sometimes called ‘enneatypes’. It’s a centries-old framework that will help you better understand others, foster self-discovery, and serve as a roadmap to achieving your full potential. Knowing what makes you and the people around you tick and conversely, stallContinue reading “Enneagram”
When you lost just keep walking
If you don’t know where you’re going any road will get you there Lewis Carroll You’re allowed to be messy. You’re allowed to be emotional. You’re allowed to cry at stupid things and stay stony-faced at a funeral . You’re allowed to love who you love. You’re allowed to forget to email that person back. Continue reading “When you lost just keep walking”
Just say ‘NO’
Self care isn’t all bubble baths and candles. Often it’s about being tough and having firm boundaries. It’s about saying “no” No, I don’t want more cake No, I can’t help you No, I don’t agree it’s all my fault No, I don’t want to work for free No, I don’t think it’s selfish No,Continue reading “Just say ‘NO’”
Depression
When you lost just keep walking Know that while you’re lost and searching, you’re actually getting valuable knowledge and skills. Think about it, you can’t get out of the maze in just the one try. You need to hit a few dead-ends before finding which route would work for you. Don’t believe everything your depressedContinue reading “Depression”
Meandering leads to perfection 